Episode 48: [HYPE GIRL CHAT] 3 Things You Need to Start Believing Right Now!

We are wrapping up the month of February and our conversation on Mindset with sharing with you three things you need to start believing RIGHT NOW. These three things are things I need you to own, believe, and take with you going forward. Once you start believing these things, you are going to be able to truly live in the sunshine, which is what we are all about. 

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Maddy 0:08 Welcome to the living in sunshine podcast if you don’t know who I am, my name is Maddy. And I am so excited to have you tuning in to our weekly podcast episodes, where we chat all the things from tips and tricks to funny stories from my life that have helped me to truly live in the sunshine. In this space, we are all about encouraging, inspiring and giving you the tough love that you need to hear sometimes to realize that you are totally made for more than what you currently have in life, and that you hold the power to make the changes that you need to level up and live your best self. So buckle up, grab some water, and let’s get into it. Hello, hello, and good morning sunshine squad. And welcome back to the podcast. If you are new here, I’m so thankful that you are tuning in to today’s episode. And I encourage you to go back and listen to all of the episodes and February because they are all about mindset. If you’re new to the show, I also want you to know that this theme is like not just a one time thing. We’ve been doing themes now on the living in sunshine podcast for a while. So if you go back to all the previous episodes, you will see all of the different themes that we have covered from goals to mindset to vision to relationships to a whole bunch of different things. So definitely go back and check out the previous episodes of the show. And let me know what you think one reminder that I have for you today is to be sure to sign up for the monthly sunshine newsletter. This is our free monthly newsletter that goes out in your email on the first Sunday of every single month. So our next one is going out in the next Sunday after this episode comes out I believe, and it is my free monthly newsletter where I send you some encouragement, some behind the scenes of all things living in sunshine, and a freebie just for you that you vote on over on Instagram. To sign up for the monthly sunshine newsletter, you can do so via the link in the show notes. And if you’re already on the list, stay tuned because the march newsletter is hitting your inbox in just a couple of days. All right, my friends. So today is a hype girl chat. These are my favorite episodes to record because this is my opportunity to fill you up with so much hype light a fire under your butt and to help you to realize and see that you are fully capable of living a life that you are obsessed with. And today’s episode, I am giving you three things that you need to start believing right now. And these are things that I have seen women struggle with that I have struggled with myself that I have told you to start believing on Instagram in our conversations and direct messages, and all of those good things. So again, tune in, go for a walk as you listen to this episode. And let’s get into three things that you need to start believing right now. The first thing that you need to start believing is that you are fully capable of making your biggest dreams come true. Okay, you are fully capable of making whatever dreams you have the biggest, scariest crap your pants Oh my gosh, huge dreams that you have. You are capable of making them come true. And here’s the thing, even if you don’t believe that, just by telling yourself, I can figure this out, you’re going to start to believe that you can do it right. You might not know how you might not know when you might not know what the next steps to do are. But you are fully capable of making your biggest dreams come true. And if you are someone who is struggling with this realization, or you have a dream, but you’re not really sure where to go. Next, I want you to hop over to Instagram and follow along and stay tuned for some really big things that I’m dropping in the next couple of months to help you make the next steps towards making your dreams come true. But this first thing, my friend is something that you need to start believing today. Because if you don’t believe that you’re fully capable of making your dreams come true, no one else is going to either. And here’s the thing about dreams. They’re yours and yours alone and no one else is going to show up for them more than you are sure you might have a dream with your spouse or your best friend Tim, I don’t know open up a restaurant or go live on a compound or start a homestead or whatever it might be. But if it is your dream, and you don’t believe in it, no one else is going to believe in it for you. And when you fully start to root yourself in the belief that you are fully capable of making that dream happen, you will then have the tenacity and the confidence to start working towards it. So the first thing that you need to start believing especially in 2022 the year where we start to do things for ourselves is to believe and know that you are fully capable of making your biggest wildest pee your pants scariest dreams come true. Okay, I need you to start believing that the next thing that you need to start believing right now yesterday a year Go and forever going forward is that you are worthy of love, and success, whatever that looks like for you. Right? Whatever that word success means to you. No matter what you look like, no matter how much money you have, or you make, no matter what your background is, no matter what your education is, your job is your skin color, your weight, the color of your hair, the way that you sound, the way that you speak, the way that you love, you are fully worthy of love and success, no matter what any of those things look like. And I say this, because so often I hear from people, I’m not going to be successful. And they say that when they say I’m not going to be what they’re really saying is I don’t believe I’m worthy of being successful, or I’m not worthy of being loved. Because I grew up in this situation, or because my skin color looks like this, or because this is what I sound like or because this is where I come from. And the fact of the matter is, is yes, you are, you are fully worthy of love and being loved by others and giving love to others, and success in your life, whatever success looks like it means to you, no matter what those things are, it doesn’t matter what you weigh. It doesn’t matter where you come from, you are worthy right here today of being loved and giving love and the success that you want for yourself. And if you are in an environment, in a situation, in a job in a relationship in a place in your life, where you have other people question making you question this, then that is a clear red flag, my friend, that you need to make some changes in your life, to put yourself in a situation in an environment where you are being told that you are worthy of love and success, whatever those things look like, no matter what you look like, right? No matter what your background is, no matter what anything is you today, in this moment, as you drive down the road, or you go for a walk with your dog, or you talk to your best friend, or you go to work or you drive home from work are worthy of all the love and success that life can give you. And when you start to believe that you start to expect that from other people, which is a right, not a privilege, being loved. And feeling successful in gaining success in your life is a right, not a privilege. And you deserve to ask have that from other people. And you deserve to take time in your life and make space in your day to feel those things love and success. So you need to start believing those things. Now you need to start believing this now. So that way you can start owning that belief, and owning that right going forward from the other people in your life. And the last thing that you need to start believing right now this very second is that you are deserving of joy and happiness every single day of your life and hear me on this, I know that life is going to be hard. I know firsthand that you’re going to have bad days. But even on those hard days, even on those bad days, even on the days where all you want to do is go get back into bed and start over. You are deserving of joy and happiness. At some point in that day, life is going to get hard wife is going to throw you down, spit in your face shove you down in the dirt push you over like a really bad bully on the playground. But even when it is hard, you need to believe that you deserve joy and happiness, no matter what. No matter what life throws at you. No matter what someone in your life throws at you, no matter what anything throws at you. You deserve joy and happiness. And again, when you start believing that and you start implementing strategies and tips, things that we’ve talked about on this show, to help welcome in joy and happiness. Because you believe that you deserve it, you are going to start feeling it more often. But it starts with a belief in yourself. It starts with the belief that you deserve that joy and that happiness every single day of your life. And again, just like I said before, if you are in a work environment, if you are in a relationship, if you are in a circumstance, if you are in a point in your life, where you have people saying things that make you doubt this, they’ve got to go, you’ve got to relocate, you got to take control back of your life and say no, that’s not true. I am deserving of love, joy, happiness, all of these things every single day. And you have every single right, every single power already within you to make the pivot that you need to make in your life to get yourself to a place where you can start to believe this and expect it every single day. These three things my friend, these three beliefs are something that you’ve got to start believing right now. Because when you start to believe these things today as and when you start to work on believing that every single day going forward, you are going to truly start to thrive and live in the sunshine, which is what we’re all about. That’s the whole point of this show. That’s the whole point of what I practice and preach and teach to you, every single week that you deserve the things you are capable of great things that it is a right that people respect you and that you live a life that you are so obsessed with, that you will not shut up about no matter who asked you about your life, right? That is what I want for you. And that type of life. That type of living starts with these beliefs. It starts with your mindset. And everything in life starts with your mindset. So again, if you’ve missed any previous episodes from this month, go give them a listen and really start to work on fixing and resetting your mindset to be one that welcomes more joy and positivity into your day, every single day. And that is everything that I have for you today, my friends short sweet to the point exactly what a hype girl chat is all about giving you the tough love and height that you need to step forward into the rest of your day. Knowing that you are a badass knowing that you deserve big things and knowing that you are capable of living a life that you love. If you love today’s episode, please please please share it with a friend, a co worker, your mom, your sister, and let me know what you think over on Instagram, either take a screenshot of today’s episode and post it to your stories with your biggest takeaways and tag me so I can see it and share it with my people. Or just shoot me a DM and let me know what you think. My hope my biggest dream with this podcast with this show you guys is to leave you feeling empowered, and knowing that you are totally capable of living a life of your design and that you are in control. No matter what your mind your people in your life or other circumstances in your life might be making you think you are in control. You are the boss and you deserve to live life in the sunshine. Until next week, my friends I am sending you all the sunshine good vibes and I hope you make it a great day. That is all I have for you today my dudes and I hope you love today’s episode. If you did, I would seriously appreciate it if you went and left the show a review and rating on whatever platform you’re currently listening on. For every review and rating that you leave it truly helps the show grow and reach more women just like yourself. If you had any major takeaways or aha moments, be sure to take a screenshot of this episode posted to your social media stories with your biggest takeaways and tag me at living in sunshine so I can share it with my people as well. Again, thank you so much for hanging out with me this week. And until next time, I am sending you all the sunshine good vibes and I hope you make it a great day.