EPISODE 88: [HYPE GIRL CHAT] Why You are Doing Yourself a Disservice If You Don’t Cast A Yearly Vision

Listen, I get it. Sometimes it can feel super “woo girl” to cast a vision year after year, but I promise you it is worth it. In today’s episode, I share with you why you should be doing this and what has happened in my life because I continue to cast a vision, year after year. If you are ready to grow in 2023, but aren’t sure of the true power of vision casting, you need to listen to today’s Hype Girl chat! 

 

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EPISODE TRANSCRIPT

 

Welcome to the living in sunshine podcast if you don’t know who I am, my name is Maddy. And I am so excited to have you tuning in to our weekly podcast episodes, where we chat all the things from tips and tricks to funny stories from my life that have helped me to truly live in the sunshine. In this space, we are all about encouraging, inspiring and giving you the tough love that you need to hear sometimes to realize that you are totally made for more than what you currently have in life, and that you hold the power to make the changes that you need to level up and live your best self. So buckle up, grab some water and let’s get into it. Hello, hello, my friends and welcome back to another episode of The Living in sunshine podcast. I am so happy that you’re here right now and hanging out with me whether you are going for a walk, you are taking a bath, you’re taking a poop you are going shopping, you’re in your car, you’re picking up your kids, wherever you are. I’m so happy that you are joining me for yet another episode of The Living in sunshine podcast. You guys we are creeping up on 100 episodes. This is episode 88 which means in the month of January. Wait no. In the month of February over the next few weeks, we are going to hit 100 episodes. And that is crazy to me. I cannot believe that this podcast has been around for almost two full years. And 100 episodes like that is so bananas to me. But I’m happy that you are back yet again for a brand new episode. If you are new to the show, whether it be because a friend sent you the episode that you’re currently listening to you found me on Instagram or you did a quick search on Apple podcasts and I popped up. I’m so glad that you’re here. My name is Matty Frey. And I am a joyful living coach and mentor and guide. And I help women to discover their true purpose and take action on it. So they can live a life of joy and a life that they are obsessed with. In this podcast space. All month long. We are talking about what it is to cast a vision and really diving into that topic of visions and what they are, how can we cast them what mine are for the new year, and all of that good stuff. If you’re loving the show, please please please leave a review, we’re so close to our 2022 goal of 50 written reviews. So if you have not yet left a review for the show, go ahead and go over to Apple scroll down underneath like the main page for my podcast episode show. And then there will be an option for you to leave a written review. When you do that, that helps the show grow so so so much, and we’re so close to that goal of 50. So if you have not yet done that, go do it right now. And know that when you do I am sending you a iced coffee a virtual hug and high five. But wherever you are in the world. One more thing to share with you before we get started in today’s episode, which is very, very timely is that to morrow is our annual vision board casting party. For the last two years, I have done vision casting vision board parties, for my Instagram community and for the podcast fan. And this year, I am hosting it exclusively within my sunshine squad community. And if you’re not sure what the sunshine squad is, it is an online community for women who are action takers and are ready to change their life for the better. Through mindset tips and personal growth opportunities, live coaching and text messages. The Sunshine squad is your way to design a life that you love, any life rooted in joy. within that space, you can want to build a business or want to work on your relationship with your partner or leave your job because it’s sucking the life out of you and chase your dream of living in a van for the rest of your life. Whatever it is, you can come to this community and be guaranteed a space to share what’s working, share what you’re struggling with, get tailored coaching and guidance from me and get connected to other women who get it like I truly understand what it’s like to have this big vision for your life. And have the people look at you in your life like your friends and your family and your co workers and stuff and have them look at you and be like What are you? What are you talking about? No, you can’t do that. This community is full of women who are going to tell you yes, you can you can do that thing. I’m in your corner. And I want to see you do that thing. And tomorrow is our annual vision board a casting party within that community. So in that vision casting party, I’m going to walk you through a vision casting experience where you are going to learn how to cast an intentional vision that works. One that is filled with purpose and one that is aligned with where you want to go in your life. Within that vision board party. You’re going to get a workbook, you’re going to get time to ask me specific questions about your own vision. And you’re going to be talked through step by step how to cast a vision that you can actually work towards going into 2023 so if you are wanting to join that vision board party, be sure to do so by the And of today because our vision board party is tomorrow, December 15, at 730 Eastern Time, and it’s only happening within that community. So if you want to be there, be sure to jump into the community ASAP. And with all of my announcements out of the way, the time is now to jump in to today’s episode. Now, today’s episode, in case you missed it, and the title is a hype girl chat, my favorite podcast episodes to record because it is my time to light the fire under your AISs to get the ball rolling towards living a life that you love and a life that you cannot shut up about. Now in today’s episode, we are going to be talking about why you’re doing yourself a disservice if you don’t cast a yearly vision. Now, last week’s episode, I talked you through a vision casting experience that’s super simple, super boiled down, but also super effective. And if you listen to that episode, or you got like halfway through the episode, and you’re like, I’m not casting a vision, and you turned it off, one rude, so rude now it’s finished my podcast episodes and to this podcast episode is for you. Because I know that there are people who listen to the show who are very much anti manifesting and vision casting and gratitude practicing and all of these things, which I totally get, like I really, really, really get because at one point in my life, I was the same way I was very much anti woo girl, I was very much like that ish doesn’t work, and I’m not doing it. But here’s the hard truth is that when I kind of stepped over my own pride, and got over myself, and I’m putting it frankly, and I tried these things for myself, man did my life change. Truly, casting a vision year after year has helped me to get to where I am today has kept me on track to continue to improve and work towards self improvement. And honestly, it has helped me to realize all of the good that I have in my life during those moments of time, or during the week or during the day where I’m like, Wow, this sucks. Like, we all have those moments, right. And casting a vision is part of that whoo girl mentality that you’re kind of you might feel like you’re wishing for things, or you’re just really hoping that things happen. But that’s not how we play. In this space. We’re all about honoring the wounds, right, honoring the wound, while also meeting that with action and following up with that with intentional action. So if you’re one of those people who is very much anti woo girl, I want you to listen, open up your mind, be a little bit accepting to new ideas, and listen to why not casting a vision is actually doing you a huge disservice in life. So before we can talk about why you’re doing yourself a disservice, if you’re not casting a vision, I really want you to get clear on what a vision is. Okay? So to me and my definition, and you might have heard something different or believe something different. A vision is kind of the the big idea and the big dream that you have for your life, right? This big, for lack of a better word vision for what you want to what you want your life to be. When you are 99 years old, and you look back on your life. You want your vision to be what you would want your life to be when you’re 99 years old, and you’re like laying in a bed, like looking up at the ceiling because we’re old and dusty, crusty. That’s what your vision is, right? So goals go into visions, goals are not visions, does that make sense? So to get to your vision, you will achieve multiple goals to get to that vision. So your life vision, your vision for life is essentially what you want the culmination of your life to be maybe where you want to live or the kind of car you want to drive, how you want to feel, the type of relationships you want to have. If you’re a business owner, kind of the outlook and the overall successes of your business. It all goes into your vision. Okay? So again, your vision is the culmination of what you want your life to be when you are 99 years old and dusty, crusty like laying on your deathbed and you think back like was my life something worth talking about? Was my life something something I would want to live again? That’s what your vision is. Okay. So sorry to interrupt the show my dude but I have some exciting news I need to share with you right now. Are you ready? I am so excited to share it that the sunshine squad monthly membership has officially launched to everyone. I designed this membership to help all of my happy hustlers, Joy seekers dream chasers and purpose pursuers have a space where they can feel supported, encouraged and inspired every single day to get after their most ideal life. Included in this membership are two coaching calls led by myself daily check ins to help you stay on track and accountable in your joy seeking weekly q&a opportunities for me to give you tailored coaching and guidance in your journey and the HIePRO text thread is coming back for members only Eat. And the best part about this, it’s only $20 a month. Literally, I made this membership for you, the girl who is ready to take control of her life, live a life of joy and obsession, and also help you get connected with other like minded women who want the same exact thing that you do. So go jump into the membership. Now you can find all of the information that you need, and the link to join us in the show notes. Or you can go find more information over on my Instagram, which is at living the letter N sunshine. And I cannot wait to see you in there. Now, if you’re someone who doesn’t cast a vision, how are you going to know when you’re old and dusty, crusty? If you achieved what you wanted to achieve, right? If you don’t sit down to ask yourself the question of where do I want to go? Or what do I want my life to be? How are you going to know whether or not you successfully made it happen? Right? It’s kind of the same thing when you ask yourself, How do you know how do I know if I had a successful year? Well, I don’t know. Because I never set any goals for myself. It’s the same thing you guys, when you fail to give yourself a vision, you fail to give yourself something to work towards. Right. And when we do that, we fail to give ourselves a bigger purpose. Right? purpose to me. And having a purpose is essentially giving yourself something to work towards. Right. For me currently, in this current season of life that I’m in my big purpose in life is to create a community and a brand and a business. That’s entire purpose is to help women hundreds 1000s of women to figure out what their purpose is to then take action on it and make their life something that they love. Okay, your purpose might be to raise three beautiful children into being upstanding citizens of our world who achieve big things. Or your purpose in this current season of life might be to be the best partner or spouse that you can be, or be the best teacher you can be to your students. Right. Your purpose can change and probably will change based off of your season of life. But without first knowing your purpose. How do you know what you’re working towards? Right? Our purpose gives us a direction. That is the same with a vision for our life. When we cast a vision, and we put that out there into the universe and we say, I want my life to look like this. I want it to include these things. I want these specific types of people to be part of it. I want these types of emotions and beliefs and feelings to be the cornerstones of my life. It gives us something to work on. It gives us an end goal, it gives us somewhere to go. And when you fail to give yourself that direction, that place to work towards. What are you doing with your life, right? How are you improving? What are you doing to design a life that you love? Where are you going? Right? You don’t know that unless you cast that vision, you just don’t that’s just the hard and fast truth of it. A vision gives us direction, just like a purpose gives us something to work towards. And here’s the truth you guys. And you might not believe this, if you’ve never done it before. If you’ve never casted a vision before, you’ve never reflected on your vision before. Our visions have such a huge impact on our life. And I said this in last week’s episode, and I’ll say it again, a lot of the things that I have in my life right now are things that I once had on my vision board. My favorite one to share with you guys is an office door. And let me explain. I know that it sounds really weird that I had an office door on my vision board. But when I first started my online business owner life and journey, I was working out of the dining room of my 900 square foot apartment. Literally, I did not have an office, I had converted our dining room into my office. But it was right next to the living room and right off of our kitchen again in our teeny tiny apartment. And that feels like so long ago. Now that I’m like really thinking about it. I’m like, wow, it seems like forever ago, I didn’t have an office door. I didn’t really have a place that was wholly mine. Whenever we had people come over, we had company and I was trying to work. I had to try and work with my company like staring at me from our living room or our kitchen because I didn’t have a door. And so I literally put on my vision board one year, an office with a door and when we moved and we bought our house I made sure that I made that happen because I had given myself something to work towards an office with a door. Okay. And that is the the impact of vision. It gives us something to work on. And over time as we continue to reflect and work towards it. We allow ourselves to say, oh my god, I did that. Oh my gosh, I made that hoping for myself, thank goodness because I’m so grateful for that experience or in my in my life that office door. Visions give us something to work on visions give us something to work towards my friend, how are you going to make progress if you don’t first know where you’re going? Your vision, casting a vision is your first step to getting the ball rolling towards making progress in your life. And it gives you a direction to go. And if you don’t first give yourself that direction, how are you going to know which way to go? Right. So think about it, mull over it marinate on it. As I often say, think about this episode. If you are someone who is very much anti, you know, casting a vision or you’ve never really thought it was important enough to dedicate the time to use this episode as something to consider as we work towards the end of the year, and work into the new year. And in whether or not you should give yourself that space to dream. And ask yourself where you want to go and cast that vision in the first place. And again, if you are so like lost on where you want to start, or where you should even start to to get cast the vision right? Consider joining the sunshine squad community because tomorrow again, at 730 December 15. Tomorrow, I promise you 7:30pm I’m going to be walking you through step by step how to cast an intentional vision of purpose and joy, and one that is rooted in what you want to do with your life. So I hope you love today’s episode. If you did go give it a shout out over on Instagram and tag me. I love seeing your guys’s biggest takeaways. And if you have questions on vision casting or anything like that, hit me up on Instagram and we can chat more. Until next time, my friend I’m sending you all the sunshine good vibes and I hope you make it a great day. That is all I have for you today my dudes and I hope you love today’s episode. If you did, I would seriously appreciate it if you went and left the show a review and rating on whatever platform you’re currently listening on. For every review and rating that you leave it truly helps the show grow and reach more women just like yourself. If you had any major takeaways or aha moments, be sure to take a screenshot of this episode. post it to your social media stories with your biggest takeaways and tag me at living in sunshine so I can share it with my people as well. Again, thank you so much for hanging out with me this week. And until next time, I am sending you all the sunshine good vibes and I hope you make it a great day.